Today, I find myself feeling very grateful for the mothers in my life. Especially the ones who raise their children next to mine - those who share with me their reasoning and commiseration and delight. The mamas who surround me in solidarity and support, who challenge me to learn more, strive harder and be better. I will never know the extent to which the sisterhood of mothering has influenced my ability to nurture Thumbelina as she grows up and into the world. But, I am thankful for having found the path I’ve chosen, and know I would not be here without the mamas who were willing to share with me their wisdom - and who continue to inspire by example. Sometimes, the strength to carry on is found in the mere knowledge that countless women across time and space have shared in my struggles and joy. I am thankful.

I came across this quote in a book I’m reading about unconditional parenting:

“Nothing you become will disappoint me; I have no preconception that I’d like to see you be or do. I have no desire to forsee you; only to discover you. You cannot disappoint me.”

It’s taken from a love letter between Mary Haskell and the poet, Khalil Gibran. I hope that one day, when Thumbelina reflects upon her childhood, she feels as embraced and cherished for her authenticity as this quote emboldens. And hopefully - thankfully - the mothers I am blessed to know will encourage me in loving without limitation the gift I’ve been given in my dearest Thumbelina.

(Thanks for making me a mama, little one.)